31 Days of Praying the Scriptures Over your Children

31 Days of Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

Raising kids is the hardest thing I will ever do. This past weekend confirmed that to me, over and over again. And over again.

Gosh, it’s hard. I’m constantly wondering if I’m doing it right or doing it well or if I’m completely screwing them up. We make jokes about how “our kids are going to talk to their therapist about this someday” … but then I’m like, “No really. I think they might.”

It’s a lot of pressure sometimes, right? To make sure they know everything they need to know. We’re always wondering if we’re doing enough, teaching enough, going to church enough, memorizing enough, reading the bible enough, to guarantee their outcomes. To guarantee their eternities.

That’s heavy stuff.

But here’s the gracious truth: ultimately, it’s not up to us. There’s no Perfect Family Formula we can follow to ensure Perfect Kids. True transformation only happens through Christ. We can’t manufacture what only He can do.

So what can we do? Are we helpless? Nope.

We can pray. Because even though it’s not up to us, God can absolutely use us as his vessels to pour into them his goodness and mercy and love — all the things that will draw them to Him.

Which brings us to this… I’ve been working on a project for a little while, combing through scripture to find thirty-one life-giving, shame-crushing, soul-transforming verses to pray over my children during the month of March.

Honestly, these are verses that will be a little terrifying to pray over them. I might not want them to be bold and courageous and sold-out, but God sure does. Praying these scriptures over my kids everyday will be an act of faith, that His plans for them are better than my plans, that His ways are higher than my ways.

So I would love for you to join me!

You can pray these with or without your spouse, with or without your kids, at the breakfast table, at the dinner table, over them while they sleep after bedtime. There is no right way. Each day we will pray that a certain scripture be manifested in our children. Because we know that His word is a lamp unto their feet and a light unto their path, which will be handy to have in a world that feels increasingly dark.

It would be an honor to pray alongside you. Sign up below and you’ll receive a prayer each morning of March, beginning March 1.

Subscribe to Receive the Prayer Series

* indicates required

materialism motherhood

Mom, Your Baby Doesn’t Need New (Top of the Line) Everything

It’s absurd. The Baby Man has a hold on us moms. Our innate competitiveness (my child WILL be the cutest kid ever) paired with our maternal instincts (my baby WILL be the most loved baby ever) have turned us into raging consumeristic, neurotic, materialistic snobs. And we don’t even realize it.

Marriage Passion Excitement Dull Growing Up Love

Dear Husband, Our Love is Different Than it Used to Be

I remembered I probably wouldn’t see you again until late that evening. We’d give each other a quick kiss, a tired, lingering hug, and chat about our days. I would tell you a few funny and/or disturbing stories about the kids and you would fill me in on work. We would give our best effort to listen and respond, though our eyes would be growing heavier by the minute. I thought about how you’d probably fall asleep on the couch later and I’d attempt to wake you up to come to bed, but eventually give up and crawl into bed alone, but not necessarily lonely.

And I felt a twinge of sadness. Like we’d lost something. That excitement and anticipation. That passion. What happened to us? I wondered. And for a minute, I wished we were back there, flirting in your dorm room, listening to that song on repeat.

That Time I Introverted So Hard (And a Book You Should Read)

I’d tell her her stuff makes me laugh as hard as the first time I saw Anchorman (really hard, BTW). I’d tell her how I just finished her latest book, Church of the Small Things, and cried the last two chapters like all three of my babies because it was like she was speaking to my soul. I’d try not to get too deep on our first encounter, but casually insert that I too struggle with feeling like I’m not doing enough and not making a big enough impact. I’d tell her I also have “all these feelings of being inadequate and questioning why things happen the way they do and wondering why I wasn’t good enough for this or that.” I’d tell her her words mattered to me.

Health Haven Coach Wellness Physical Emotional Spiritual

Three Questions That Made Me Healthier

This is not about looking skinnier in a pair of jeans or feeling prettier, although those things are nice side effects. This is about giving your loved ones your best self: your husband, your kids, your friends. When I feel better, I will be a better wife, mom, and follower of Jesus.